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R. Smith
09-25-2009, 07:04 PM
Well, I am no longer single. But don't celebrate yet folks. I & a old friend of mine started seeing each other, I've known her for over 10 years. It started with coffee, now we are seeing each other.

We talk on the phone & chat on FB. Lately she has told me she is talking to a old friend who died a long time ago.

I don't know if she is crazy, and now I don't know how to break it off...

ausgirl
09-25-2009, 11:07 PM
Well, I am no longer single. But don't celebrate yet folks. I & a old friend of mine started seeing each other, I've known her for over 10 years. It started with coffee, now we are seeing each other.

We talk on the phone & chat on FB. Lately she has told me she is talking to a old friend who died a long time ago.

I don't know if she is crazy, and now I don't know how to break it off...

My guess would be she's into newe age stuff.....ask her what she means and then you can steer her in the right direction.

R. Smith
09-26-2009, 06:28 AM
Ausgirl - I don't know if its new age stuff, I think she really believe she talks to her died friends. I told her I don't believe that stuff, but she is standing strong. I've had more than 1 conversation with her about this.

So, as much as I don't want to. I think I'm gonna have to break it off...

Tony Trout
09-26-2009, 08:12 AM
As much as I hate to say it, I'd let her go her own way.

R. Smith
09-26-2009, 08:17 AM
I would have to agree...

RevZeek
09-26-2009, 09:17 AM
Grr...sorry to hear it man. Will be praying for you AND her. Breaking off a relationship isn't the easiest thing in the world...Hang in there.

R. Smith
09-26-2009, 09:24 AM
I'm not worried about myself, but I hate to hurt her feelings. But...I can't be with someone who believes she talks to the dead.

R. Smith
10-01-2009, 03:56 PM
I broke it off with her. She didn't seem to upset, actually took it very well. It wasn't a eazy thing for me to do, but I had to do it...

RevZeek
10-02-2009, 04:33 AM
I broke it off with her. She didn't seem to upset, actually took it very well. It wasn't a eazy thing for me to do, but I had to do it...

Hang in there man. Our prayers are with you.

R. Smith
11-26-2009, 10:33 AM
When God closes one door, He opens another. My last ex and I have been broken up for awhile now. Which is probably a good thing, she quickly moved on.

I met a young Lady at a conference in Kelowna BC early this past Spring, and these past 3 weeks....her & I have been keeping in touch on FaceBook. She is 26, likes music like I do, and I believe she is looking for a relationship. Not just dating...

rossid
11-26-2009, 04:14 PM
Sounds promising...

Patience young Jedi!

R. Smith
11-26-2009, 04:25 PM
I can't help but be patient, we live so far apart from one another. Kitimat and Kelowna are 18 hours away from each other; and I won't see her again until this Spring.

She is really kool, saved, pretty. I'm happy right know just getting to know one another...